Saturday was International Women’s Day 2014.
Lulu and I each received a bouquet from the barista at the coffee shop in Piazza Grande.
The symbolic flowers were everywhere. On the balcony of one of our favorite pizzerias.
Stretching out from behind an ancient wall along a vicolo.
And even balanced precariously on a bicycle.
The first Women’s Day was celebrated in the United States in 1909. By 1911, women were being recognized internationally on a special day.
Started by the Socialist Party, but broadened (get it? – sorry) to include Social Democrats and other parties, the day is designed to remind the world about the rights and demands of women.
During this time of recognition and celebration, where freedoms, salaries and protection are some of the larger issues, here are my personal “demands.” I bet there’s a woman near and dear to you, who might make these as well.
- Thank me.
I work hard every day – to make our daughter breakfast and walk her to school, to coach and consult with my communications clients, to consider and care for friends and family, to cook dinner and to love, listen to and respect my husband. The simple phrase, “Thanks, hon, for all you do” warms my heart and encourages me every time I hear it.
- Forgive me.
In spite of my strengths, I am also full of flaws and frailties. I am a work in progress. I don’t want a full-time pass, because I definitely believe I am in control of my decisions and actions, and can always work harder. But sometimes a “hey, don’t worry, we all make mistakes,” can bring great comfort and reassurance.
- Offer to help me.
“Is there anything I can I do to help?” is a fabulous question. Even if I don’t take you up on the offer at the precise moment, the gesture is terrific.
- Love and respect me.
We are Mothers. Sisters. Wives. Partners. Friends. So – just like our Fathers. Brothers. Husbands. Partners. Friends – we are human first. All we need is love. And the rest will follow, won’t it?
For all the women out there – and the men too – I hope you are giving love and respect and getting it in return.
Til next time,
Baci – Gina
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