All righty, fellow Americans, it’s that time of year again to gather around the table to give thanks.
Even if you’re not American, you’ve probably heard of it: It’s our fun-and-family-filled (do these two really co-exist?) annual event in which we all eat a little too much and perhaps drink a little too much: Thanksgiving!
Tradition has it, it started waaay back in the 1600’s when the Pilgrims gathered in Plymouth, Massachusetts; thankful for a bountiful harvest. But for us, when the dozens of us – Mom, Dad, Grannie, Grampa and assorted aunts, uncles and cousins arrived at Aunt Neatie and Uncle Dick’s house in Fish Lake, Indiana – we thought less about any harvest and more about eating, playing and, of course, football.
But, in the spirit of Thursday’s holiday and because it’s the obvious hook for this week’s blog, I am hereby going to tell you a few of the many things I am thankful for.
First, the most obvious: Family. They say you can pick your friends, but you can’t pick your family. Maybe they also say something about your nose, but that’s gross. Anyway, I am so grateful for my family. I have a mom and step-dad who have steadfastly loved and supported me over the years. We haven’t agreed on everything – but we always have kept the concept of “unconditional love” in the forefront.
My sister Andrea and my brothers Brad and Jayson all get along. We have completely different lives and we don’t talk every day. But I know that if I ever were in dire need, they’d do whatever they could. I’m confident they are assured of the same from me.
My husband, Scotty, is my best friend and partner. In our seven years together, we have lived in Denver, Cairo, Seattle, Paris, Baltimore and Tuscany. That’s more than some couples do in a lifetime! And, of course, there’s Lulu. I never knew what I was missing all those years before she came along. What a joy. Frustrations too, but mostly, mostly joys.
Health. Second, or maybe even tops on the list, has to be health. You can have everything, but without your health to enjoy it… this year has been a trying one for too many of my friends.. battling illnesses or dealing with the fallout from the struggles of family members.
Humor. That’s it. The third and final thing I’ll list here today, next to health, is humor. The number one thing I believe your must have to fully experience well-being. I don’t mean the ability to tell a great knock-knock-joke or leave ‘em crying at a comedy club; but the grace to find a silver lining or funny moment in the midst of despair.
Life’s short. Soon we’ll be back around the sun again and looking inward at yet another Thanksgiving time. Maybe we’ll have remembered to spend more of the trip being thankful the rest of the year too!
Okay, now who’s going to be in the big football match-up this year?
(Not that I’ll be watching from here in Tuscany, mind you!)
But happy Thanksgiving y’all and hug your family!
P.S. We’ve all got something to be thankful for, right? Share it!